”I attract what I am, what I do, what I feel and what I think I deserve.”
When it comes to attracting the life you want and desire there’s no shortcut – you’ll have to do the work. You’ll have to put in the actions needed for it to become a part of your future reality.
But first things first. If you’re not happy with where and who you are in this moment it will become slightly more difficult to move forward. As you might notice this is kind of a paradox – being fully content with where one is right now, and still wanting to evolve.
However, I do believe it’s completely natural for us humans to expand and constantly want to develop. It’s part of the human life – it’s how we survive. We need to be able to adapt to the changes happening in the world, and we need to be aware of when and how we’re holding ourselves back.
Embrace the moment
But how does one become content with the present moment? How does one stay satisfied with what is, when the mind is obsessed with living in the past or worrying about the future? It’s like it does anything to escape the now.
”I don’t want to be here, I need to get to there. To be there will be much more fulfilling.” ”I’m not satisfied with where I am – I need to have more, do more, be more, then my life will be complete.”
Your life is already complete. If you exist, if you breathe – then you are complete.
The ego, however, will never be fulfilled. No matter how much recognition, admiration, power or success it receives the ego will always crave more. More, more, more. Give me more. I’m nothing, no one, without all this.
The ego doesn’t strive by being in the present. Nevertheless, the present moment is all there ever is, and ever will be. When something happens, it always happens now. Nothing ever happens in the future, it happens in the moment.
Embrace the moment. Learn how to be kinder to your mind. Take your power back, and lean towards love and curiosity. Fear will most likely show up along the way – don’t repress it, instead invite it in. Let it know that you don’t need it anymore. Let it know that you will survive without it. It’s completely fine to feel afraid, it’s human. But don’t let that fear stop you from moving forward. Don’t let it stop you from taking baby steps towards your dreams.
Let’s say you want a killer body; a strong, healthy physique. Writing down on a piece of paper about your strong, healthy, killer body won’t magically attract it to you. Repeating affirmations day in and day out ”I have a strong, healthy body” won’t make your body change just like that. Visualizing and writing things down is, however, one piece of the puzzle, but you’ll have to put in the effort as well. You have to schedule time for your workouts, you have to choose nutritious, healthy foods, and last but not least you have to know that you’re worthy of having a strong, healthy body. You have to be patient with yourself, and you have to know that if you want something you’ll have to be consistent.
Things just don’t magically appear in our lives. We actually need to put in the work. You want to run a successful business? – Start planning what you’ll have to do, in order for that to be your reality. Baby steps is better than no steps. You want to find the love of your life? – Become the love of your life.
You attract what you are, what you do, what you feel and what you think you deserve.