The season of creating space; making room for the fresh, the new. Honest and truthful beliefs, thoughts, and habits. It’s not about becoming a new person, but about returning to the real you.

You don’t need to escape the world to reconnect with your true essence— try anchoring yourself throughout the day with small rituals. A deep breath before checking your phone. A moment of stillness before answering someone. Presence to connect before making a decision. Tiny gestures like these say, “I’m here. I remember myself.”

The season of emptying.

This is not emptiness as in ”lack.” It’s emptiness as in rich, fertile soil. You’re clearing out old roots, old stagnant energies, making room for a love, a life that doesn’t require you to shrink or prove yourself to another.

Stillness is not emptiness. It is sacred space for truth to bloom.

Let yourself:

• Sleep in your own rhythm.
• Say no without guilt.
• Explore who you are when you’re not being watched.
• Journal your truth without editing it.
• Let beauty in — music, art, nature, movement— not to impress, just to feel.
• Practice not chasing. Let life come to you.

This is a shift from proving to belonging.

When you act from proving, you’re chasing things, whether it’s validation, love or status. When you act from belonging, you’re inviting everything that is meant to be — from a rooted, centered place.

It’s not about taking a break from life, or a relationship – you’re taking a break from the energetic posture of a certain habit. You’re ending a relationship with a pattern, with an identity, with a belief that says ”I am not enough.” It’s you choosing to come home to yourself before opening the door to something new. Not out of bitterness or fear – but out of clarity, reverence and self-respect.

There’s something beautiful about letting yourself not know what’s next in your life. Not planning it. Not striving for it. Just tending to your own garden. Because eventually, the life you attract will be a reflection of this grounded version of you — the one who knows she doesn’t have to chase anything.

Embrace patience, but know that patience isn’t just ”waiting nicely”. Maybe patience is compassion with yourself in motion. It’s allowing yourself to tremble while you learn to walk a new way.

When the soil is ready, the bloom always comes. And it won’t require you to earn it. It’ll recognize you, just as you are.