My biggest struggle in life has been allowing myself to step into my power.

But, eventually there comes a pivotal moment, when one realises that one has been living below one’s potential.

From an early age I was playing small, dimming my light, and more often than not doubting my abilities. This realization can be both daunting and liberating. However, it was the moment when I decided to step into my power. Although the steps are small, they are moving me closer and closer towards my power, one step a time.

But what does it mean to step into your power?

If you ask me, then I would say that it’s all about fully embracing who you are and what you are capable of. It’s about recognizing your strengths, acknowledging your worth, and having the courage to live authentically. Generally this process involves shedding the limitations you’ve placed on yourself—whether from fear, societal expectations, or self-doubt—and stepping boldly into the life you were meant to lead.

The first step – Self-Awareness

The first step in this journey is self-awareness. To truly step into your power, you must understand who you are at your core. Be honest with yourself, and show yourself compassion and grace while you confront uncomfortable truths about yourself. There’s no rush, let it take time, it’s your journey after all.

What are your strengths? Weaknesses? What do you really love doing? What limiting beliefs are holding you back?

Be you, everyone else is already taken

Living authentically means being true to yourself, even when it’s uncomfortable or unpopular. It’s about expressing your true thoughts, feelings, and desires without fear of judgment. When you live authentically, you attract opportunities and relationships that align with your true self, rather than those that feed into a persona you’ve created to please other. Your authenticity is your most powerful strength – embrace it!

Take inspired action

Once you’ve embraced your authentic self and released all those nasty limiting beliefs, it’s time to take action. But not just any action—inspired action. This means moving forward with purpose and intention, guided by your inner wisdom and intuition. Inspired action feels natural, even if it’s challenging, because it’s aligned with your true desires. It just feels right!

Embrace resilience

Stepping into your power doesn’t mean life will suddenly become easy. You will still likely be faced with obstacles and setbacks. However, when you’re operating from a place of true power, you become resilient. You understand that challenges are a part of life (and sometimes makes life exciting!) and that they often lead to growth and deeper self-discovery. This resilience is what keeps you moving forward, even when the going gets tough.

Surround yourself with a supportive community

No one steps into their power alone. It’s essential to surround yourself with a supportive community—people who uplift you, encourage you, and challenge you to be your best self. These can be friends, mentors, coaches, or even online communities. The key is to find those who see your potential and are willing to help you step into it. Remember, when you are your most authentic self the people that are meant to find you will find you. You will cross each other’s path ❤

Celebrate your successes

Finally, it’s important to celebrate your successes, no matter how small. Acknowledging your progress helps build confidence and reinforces your belief in your abilities. It also creates a positive feedback loop that motivates you to keep moving forward.

With this being said, stepping into your power is a transformative process that requires courage, self-awareness, and a commitment to personal growth. It’s about reclaiming your life and living in alignment with your truest, most authentic self. And no, I wouldn’t say that it’s always easy, but definitely worth it. Be grateful to your past self that has taken you to where you are now, and be grateful to your present self that are guiding you forward.