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Soft habits to come back to yourself

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At times, the outside world can make us feel a little uneasy, frustrated, or overwhelmed. Everywhere we turn, there’s noise, opinions and endless stimulation. There’s always something to react to, absorb, or be affected by—sometimes without us even realising it.

And sure, all of this external input can be inspiring. It can spark ideas or fuel our creativity. But it can also become too much. There are moments when we don’t recognise the sound of our own voice, because it has been buried beneath the volume of everything coming from the outside.

In those moments, it’s vital to take a step back and to reconnect with our own voice. To return to our own intuition. Most of the time, the answers we’re looking for aren’t out there—they’re within us. But to access that inner wisdom, we need space. We need peace. We need stillness.

That’s where soft habits come in. These gentle, grounding rituals that can help us return to ourselves. Here are a few of my personal favorites—habits I come back to when I need to re-center. I hope they speak to you, too.

1. Start Your Morning in Silence

I love beginning my day in peace. For me, that means enjoying a cup of coffee or tea in bed—still wrapped in the warmth of my sheets, surrounded by quiet. If it’s a weekday, I’ll wake up a little earlier than usual to make this time happen.

The key is silence, no scrolling through the phone or the email. No distractions. Just me, my coffee, and my breath. I ask myself: How do I feel today? What does my body need? What is my energy like? And then—I listen. I really listen.

This ritual feels sacred, it’s my little sanctuary. It’s not about indulgence, it’s about awareness. A place to be fully with myself before the outside world rushes in. I don’t know if it’s the comfort of my bed, or the taste of the coffee, or just the ability to being able to sit with myself before the day begins, that makes this so enjoyable.

2. Voice Message Journaling

Traditional journaling never quite stuck for me. My thoughts move too fast for my hand to keep up. But voice messages—those feel natural. They let me speak from intuition, and the heart, without censoring or editing. Just pure expression.

I record these audio notes for myself. Sometimes I never listen to them again. But often, when I do, I hear snippets of wisdom. There’s something comforting about hearing your own voice speak truth—even if it’s messy or emotional or unclear.

I find it deeply comforting to hear my own voice. Maybe that sounds weird, but it’s very eye-opening to hear your own voice speak something profoundly, or something that is filled with wisdom.

This practice is a beautiful way to get to know yourself better. It’s like having a conversation with your inner self—and over time, it deepens your self-trust.

3. Create with Your Hands

There’s something incredibly grounding about using your hands to make something from scratch.

It could be baking a cake, cooking a nourishing meal, chopping vegetables, stirring sauces, and tasting as you go; it all brings you back to the present moment.

Or it could be planting something. A flower. Herbs. Vegetables. Whatever fits your space. Even if you’re unsure or inexperienced, just the act of planting a seed and tending to it is deeply healing. It reminds us of cycles, growth, and patience.

Creating something with your hand brings you back to the essentials. It brings you back to yourself and it brings you back to what is actually important in life; to create, and to build something from scratch. We don’t have to be perfect at it, but we shouldn’t lose our humaneness. AI can be extremely convenient, not to mention all the technology available everywhere, but we shouldn’t lose what it is meant to be human – the importance of creation.

4. Wear What Makes You Feel Like You

This might sound simple, but it’s powerful: put on your favorite clothes.

Whether you choose something elegant, sensual, cozy, or bold—wear what makes you feel most you. Maybe a soft fabric that feels amazing against your skin, a color that brings out your eyes, or a piece that brings your you-ness forth. It doesn’t have to be fancy—it just has to feel right for you.

There’s something almost alchemical about wearing clothes that express your true self. It brings out a kind of soft confidence—not the loud, performative kind, but the quiet, grounded kind. I believe that when you wear something that aligns with your inner most self it becomes easier to be yourself. And if you’ve felt lost or disconnected, this simple act can gently bring you back.

These soft habits aren’t dramatic or revolutionary, but they will definitely spark something within you, since they help create moments of slowness, stillness and presence.

Soft rituals like these—sitting with your morning coffee in silence, recording your thoughts with your voice, using your hands to create something from scratch, and wearing something that feels like you—can be anchors. They can bring you back when life pulls you in too many directions.

You don’t have to do them all at once. Maybe try one today. Or tuck this away for the next time you feel stressed and overstimulated.

And if you have soft habits of your own, I’d love to hear them—share them in the comments. ❤️

The feminine – The Power in Stillness

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For me, the power in stillness is about being fully with yourself. Not halfway. Not in fragments. But fully. It’s about being okay with your own company, not just tolerating it, but thriving in it.

Because when you’re truly with yourself, you remember: You are already everything you will ever need. There is nothing outside of you that can complete you, because you are not missing anything. You never were.

To recognize that—
to feel that in your bones—
is powerful.

Stillness is not about doing nothing. It’s about moving through life with a presence that comes from deep within. It’s that soft, steady confidence: ”I am enough as I am.”

Yes, you have dreams, desires, and needs.
You are human. You’re allowed to want, to long, to reach.

But those desires don’t define your worth. They are not proof that you are enough.
You were worthy long before you asked for anything.

She—the woman who lives in her stillness— is open to life. She is strong in her boundaries. And she is graceful in her presence. She carries a softness that doesn’t shrink. A quietness that doesn’t apologize. A confidence that doesn’t need to perform.

She just is.
And that is-ness—
that simple, grounded being—
is her magic.

She doesn’t need to chase. She doesn’t need to convince anyone to like her, love her, or choose her. She knows: Either people see her, or they don’t. Either they value her, or they won’t. But that’s not her burden to carry.

She just is…

… And it’s her is-ness that draws people to her. And in that being, she attracts all that is meant for her. The people. The opportunities. The abundance. The life. Not through striving. Not through force. But through her presence— through her essence. She lives fully in her feminine. She is anchored, soft, magnetic. And that… that is what makes her powerful.

This is feminine power:
The kind that flows instead of forces.
The kind that draws in what’s meant without chasing what isn’t.
The kind that says, “I am enough, here and now, even if I’m not moving.”

You don’t need to take up more space to matter.
You don’t need to speak louder to be powerful.
You don’t need to constantly be “doing” to prove your worth.

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is be still. And be you.

Reflection Prompt:

When do you feel most rooted in your power?
Is it when you’re performing… or when you’re simply being?

Write, or record a voice message, for 5 minutes: What does stillness feel like in my body, my heart, my spirit?

The feminine

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The feminine is powerful.
Not because she’s loud,
but because she’s rooted.

She is powerful in her being,
in her softness,
in her groundedness.

She’s like a flower—
blooming, flourishing—
not needing permission
or validation
to exist.

She just is.

She knows her worth.
She knows what she brings—
to the table,
to the room,
to the world.

She holds space for herself.
And she’s open—
open to receiving the right kind of energy.

She doesn’t chase.
She attracts.

She stands in her authenticity,
unafraid to be fully,
unapologetically
herself.

Yes—she makes mistakes.
She’s human.
And she’s okay with that.

She doesn’t punish herself
for being human.
Because every experience,
every scar,
is part of her becoming.

She’s learning.
She’s growing.
She’s evolving.

And through it all,
she allows herself to be
this beautiful, ever-changing
work of art.

She is the creator
of her own life.

She already holds everything she needs:
her beauty,
her wisdom,
her strength,
her confidence.

She’s not loud.
But don’t mistake that for weakness.

She is powerful—
quietly powerful.

In a world obsessed with noise,
with striving,
with doing,
she simply is.

And that unsettles people.
Because she doesn’t conform.
She doesn’t strive to prove.
She allows.
She flows.
She lives.

And when people see that…
that grounded presence,
that self-trust…
they may not know what to do with it.

But that’s not her problem.

She doesn’t need a title.
She doesn’t need a degree.
She doesn’t need permission.

She has something even greater—
a hunger for life.
A desire to learn.
A fire to grow.

And yes…
some may be intimidated by that.

But again—
that’s not her problem.

She is who she is.

And that is more than enough.

Imposter Syndrome, Art, and the Courage to Begin Again

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”I paint more from feeling than from thought.”


A few years ago, something quiet and persistent within me said, “You need to start painting.” So I did—without a plan, without training, without knowing why. I followed feeling. I let color move where words couldn’t.

My work lives in the spaces between: softness and stillness, motion and memory, the inner landscapes we don’t always know how to name.

I use whatever medium feels right in the moment—acrylics, pastels, texture, gesture. What matters most to me is honesty. That the work comes from a true place.

To my surprise, people noticed. Friends, family, even colleagues asked if they could buy a piece. At first I was touched—and then, slowly, doubt crept in. Who am I to call this art? Who am I to charge money for something I barely understand myself? That voice got louder, and eventually, I stopped painting.

It’s been nearly five years now. But something inside me is shifting again. This time, I want to return differently. Not as someone who needs to prove anything—but as someone who is finally ready to honor the quiet truth: this matters to me.

I believe art is not just something we make. It’s something we listen to. Something we are.

🌸 Title: Where Petals Drift Without Permission


This piece bloomed in ten minutes, without a plan, without permission—just oil pastel on instinct. The flowers aren’t perfect, the water doesn’t follow rules, but that’s the truth of it.
It’s the way play looks when no one’s watching. The kind of beauty that doesn’t need to be asked for—just felt.

I’m no longer trying to be “good enough” or waiting to be told I’m allowed. I’m painting because it brings me back to myself. Because something inside me still wants to speak through color, through texture, through feeling. And that is enough.

Maybe you’ve paused something you love too. Maybe you’re waiting for the perfect moment, the confidence, the credentials. I don’t have those either. What I do have is the courage to return. Quietly. Gently. Honestly.

And maybe that’s all we really need.

Have you ever come back to something you thought you left behind?

The unfolding

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Part 2; ”I love who I am returning to.”

This is not about becoming someone new, it’s about unfolding into who you always been. It’s about honoring every version of yourself that came before. It’s about finally being able to look at yourself – honestly – and say ”I love who I am remembering.”

So, unfolding is not just about who you are growing into, it’s also about making peace with all the layers you clothed yourself with. Loving who you are returning to means accepting every version of you that was masking the real you – The uncertain one. The one who feared taking up space, the one who doubted, or did not yet know the innate worth resting inside. Growth does not mean hiding from, or escaping those parts, it means embracing and accepting them.

Unfolding does not begin with striving toward the new. It starts with acceptance, and sometimes, it’s about surrender. Letting go of past identities or beliefs that no longer fit. Releasing old stories, and narratives that are holding you back. There’s grace in that letting go. And there’s power in allowing something new to grow.

It’s about softening into change rather than fight it. To stop gripping so tightly to what once was and instead trust in what’s unfolding. And maybe that’s the hardest part of uncovering, remembering – the surrender. The moment you silently whisper to yourself – ”Okay, I am ready for something different, I might not know what that exactly looks like yet, but I know I am ready.”

And when you do that, when you finally let go, you will notice space opening. Space for new thoughts, new beliefs. Space for a blossoming you that feels more aligned.

There will still be days when you will miss the old version of yourself. Not because that version was better, but because it was familiar.

Yet, you know there’s a different version of you wanting to come forth. One that’s more at peace, more aligned. One that simply is. The one that does not need to pretend, or perform. The version that is rooted in her being. A being from which all necessary and inspired action is originating.

It’s not a new version, it’s a deeper version. A lighter, unchained version. And this version is you.

Allow yourself to blossom

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Part 1; ”I am allowed to blossom.”

”You are allowed to take up space just by being you, by simply existing. ”

Not striving, not performing , simply allowing. Blossoming not because you should, but because it’s in your nature. Observe nature right now, how she is stunningly herself, not asking for permission to bloom – she just is.

You do not need to earn your worthiness. There’s nothing to prove, just a quiet, soft confidence, not loud or forced, but grounded in something ancient and true. Like a garden early summer – sun-warmed, lush, quietly alive. There’s nothing to hold back, nothing to be rushed, a simple reminder that your are unfolding. Allow yourself to move with the colorful flowers, the lush trees, the spellbound waters. Everything which you are a part of.

Maybe you have dimmed parts of yourself. Maybe you softened your brightness so others wouldn’t feel uncomfortable. Maybe you stayed small in moments where you longed to express yourself. But all of this time there was this soft, gentle inner voice – You are allowed to blossom.

So now, you are listening. You are not quieting that voice down. You are moving your body intentionally, because it reminds you that you are alive. You rest deeply and unapologetically. You soak in the beauty surrounding you. You listen to yourself before the noise of the world. You do not force yourself on the world, you simply show up as you are.

You are allowing softness.
You are allowing growth.
And just as the midnight sun you are allowing light to stay on.

There’s no rush. No performance. Just presence.

You are alive.

A soft confidence

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Soft confidence. A confidence that doesn’t shout or demand validation. It resides deep within: a quiet knowing, trust in oneself, eager to follow one’s inner wisdom, even when the world pulls in different directions.

Here’s how to begin building that kind of soft inner strength.

1. Start by welcoming stillness

Soft confidence begins in stillness. It’s difficult to hear your intuition when you’re constantly distracted by the noise of the outside world. Make space in your life for silence—whether that’s through meditation, walks in nature, journaling, or simply sitting without a screen. Stillness isn’t empty. It’s full of answers.

When you slow down, you start to hear the whispers of your inner wisdom. You begin to notice what feels aligned and what feels off. That’s your truth speaking. Listen.

2. Learn the sound of your intuition

Very seldom you’ll hear your intuition shouting. It’s a quiet nudge, a gut feeling, a soft but persistent pull in a certain direction. Learning to recognise it takes practice. Patience. Begin by noticing how your body responds to different situations. Do you feel tight or light? Open or resistant?

Start honoring your intuition in small decisions, then the stronger and clearer it becomes for the bigger ones. Eventually, it becomes your compass that guides you through life.

3. Embrace radical honesty—with yourself

To live true to yourself, you need to know yourself. You need to be willing to see all parts of who you are—not just the polished, and socially acceptable pieces, but the messy, raw, uncertain parts too.

This self-honesty isn’t about being judgmental. It’s about compassion. You are not broken. You’re already complete, there’s nothing to be fixed. But, you’re constantly changing and evolving. You are becoming. When you stop trying to be someone you’re not, your quiet confidence starts to grow.

4. No need to prove yourself

Soft confidence doesn’t need to be right. It doesn’t crave attention or applause. At times it might want it, but it does not need it. It simply is—a calm presence that doesn’t become uneasy when not seen or praised.

When you start living in alignment with your truth, your actions will start to speak for themselves. When showing up from a place of authenticity, there’s no need for performance. An energy like that is magnetic—without even trying to be.

5. Protect your peace

Not everyone will understand your path—and that’s completely okay. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for living a life that feels true to you. Learn to protect your peace, set boundaries, and say no when needed. Finally, walk away from the spaces that drain your spirit.

Your inner world is your sacred home. Treat it as such.

6. Surround yourself with beautiful souls

A quiet soft confidence is contagious. Surround yourself with people who respect your depth, who speak with kindness, and who live with integrity. Find those who listen more than they talk, who reflect rather than react.

It becomes easier to be true to yourself, when in the presence of others who are true to themselves

7. Let the way you live be the message

There’s no need to preach or convince. Let your alignment speak, and let the way you choose to live be an example.

It’s not about changing who you are. It’s about returning to who you’ve always been—beneath the noise, the fear, the outside expectations.

Start by listening, and trust what you hear.

The moment in-between

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The space most of us rush past. Ignore.
Not the beginning. No the end.
Just the middle. The pause.
The moment in-between.

It’s the quiet after all is done,
but before the next flood of inspiration hits again.
The space between one thing and the next.
The refreshing exhale before something new begins.

But we choose to fill it.
With noise. With scrolling. With productivity.
This constant urge to go go go.
Stillness can feel like discomfort.
Boredom can feel like ”I am boring”.
Silence can be frightening. Empty.

But what if you just started to listen?

What if those in-between moments —
are the places where you can finally hear yourself breathe?

The pause where you feel your energy move through your body.
The silent spaciousness where you remember
you don’t have to become anything to already be worthy.

This is not the absence of life.
This is life. You are life.
Unperformed. Unedited. Undistracted.

Peaceful.

What if you let yourself pause?

Be in the slowness.
Be in the quiet.
Just be.
Be.

Stay in the now — even when it’s not exciting.

Let yourself:

  • Sit with the pause instead of rushing to fill it.
  • Feel your breath without the need to change it.
  • Notice your surroundings, without judgement.
  • Be in a moment without needing it to be productive or profound.

There is wisdom in the pause, clarity in the mundane,
a soft kind of healing in the in-between.

You do not always need a breakthrough.
Sometimes, you just need to be with yourself, in silence.

What if the biggest success is happening within?
The powerful moment in-between.

Part 3; The Season of Becoming

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After the emptying, after the soft, slow season of receiving, happens a quiet shift. A gentle blooming.

This is the season of becoming. Or should I say – the season of returning to the real you.

It won’t be a sharp turning point, nor a grand transformation. But a subtle unfolding. A moment when you begin to realise: I no longer need to try so hard to be who I already am.

Becoming is what happens after you’ve made space, after you’ve received. It’s the natural order of living in integrity with your inner being. Nothing needs to be forced. It effortlessly arises.

This season is filled with forward movement — but not the panicky, grasping kind of action. This is inspired action. It’s rooted, quiet and confident. There’s no more chasing. You’re creating, expressing, responding. You’re living from completeness, not from lack.

There’s no need to declare this metamorphose.
Your energy speaks louder than your words now.
This is you, naturally.

Let yourself:

  • Make decisions that reflect your worth, not your wounds.
  • Say yes because you truly want to, not out of obligation.
  • Let clarity guide your next steps — even if they’re small.
  • Share and express your voice, your art, your truth — not to be seen, but to be free.
  • Release what no longer aligns, without guilt or over-explaining.

In this season, life begins to reflect back the internal work you’ve been doing. Not immediately, nor all at once. But steadily. Subtly. Authentically.

This is not a return to the hustle and constant busyness. It’s you being whole, participating in your life with open eyes and a conscious and calm heart.

You’re not chasing anymore — but you are moving in the right direction.

You do not feel the need to prove yourself anymore — but you are showing up.

There’s beauty in this cycle —

Emptying.
Receiving.
Becoming.

And the beauty is: it’s continual.

Over and over, throughout your life, you’ll return to the sacred flow of shedding, slowing down, and stepping forward. Each time, more of you will come forth.

So when the next disentanglement comes, invite it.
It only means the next version of you is ready to bloom.

Your body – the home you carry everywhere

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Your body; the one place you’ll live in for your entire life, no matter where you go, what you achieve, or how much your circumstances change it will always be with you as long as you breathe. It is the temple that holds your thoughts, your emotions, your stories; the only home your soul has known in this lifetime.

And still, how often do we forget to care for it the same way we would a precious house or sacred space?

Before you knew language, you knew sensations such as touch, scent, sight, sound and taste. From day one your body has been communicating with you. Every cell of your body holds information. Have you ever taken the time to listen?

Like any home, your loving body requires maintenance — it feeds on rest, nourishment, movement, and compassion. It needs to be listened to when something isn’t working quite right, and appreciated for all the wonderful things it allows you to do each day: breathing, walking, creating, loving, laughing. Living.

However, many of us choose to treat our bodies with criticism rather than gratitude. We fixate on how the body looks rather than how the body feels. We ignore its cries for attention and care, running it into the wall while wanting it to look perfect. But how about feeling perfectly at peace?

Would you talk to your beloved childhood-home that way — pointing out only its faults, and ignoring its warmth and history?

Your body knows before you do; it speaks to you in somewhat mysterious ways. Your job is to tap into the wisdom it carries, and let it guide you through every one of your life experiences. Your body holds your resilience, your healing, your presence, and your awareness. It tells your story before you have expressed it in words.

Treat your body like a precious home. Cleanse it with sleep and nourishing foods, feed it with grace and care, move it with joy, and decorate it with self-love. But most importantly, speak to it with kindness.

You wouldn’t scream at the walls of your house for not being perfect would you?

So offer your body the same gentle care.

You can change your outer appearance in so many different ways — but you still live there. So make it a space that feels safe, empowered, and alive. After all, no matter where you go and who you are, your body goes with you. Carry it with your heart.