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Morning pages

I’ve started my mornings by writing in my journal, almost on autopilot. Even on the days when there’s nothing to say — which happens a lot. At 6 a.m. my mind is usually quiet. I don’t write down my dreams since I seldom remember them; they tend to show up later in the day. My sleep is deep. I’m painfully slow in the morning, and I need time to come back to this world. Writing helps with that.

Sometimes I wonder if, while I sleep, I’m traveling “home,” and waking up I find myself back here. Have you ever felt that?

However, this is not going to be a post about my nightly travels. Rather, I wanted to share the benefits of writing your thoughts down, first thing in the morning. Writing without editing.

Creating is much more than simply producing something pretty; it’s a way of bringing the unseen into the seen. Creative expression often reveals what we are yearning for, what we value, or what we are healing. It’s a mirror of our inner world. For example when journaling a dream life, painting a serene scene, or writing poetry of love/abundance – this act of imagination can be seen as manifestation. When we create, we manifest.

I noticed while free writing early morning my mind is not as dense and occupied as it would be during the day or the evening. Still, I think journaling has its benefits at any hour, but I find there’s something magical about the early mornings. Before the day starts pulling us in different directions, the mind feels less distracted, more honest, more raw. The words don’t need to sound pretty, and they don’t have to carry some deep revelation. The purpose is simply to let them out.

The idea of morning pages comes from Julia Cameron’s book The Artist’s Way. It’s a book I highly recommend anyone who wish to live a more creative life. The aim is to write three pages, however, some days I write half a page, others one page, and some more than three. On occasion, I even pick it up again in the evening. It really depends. I’ve never been one for rigid structures, I’d rather move with the flow.

One of the reasons I began morning pages was to hear my own voice again. It had become buried under so many outside distractions, that I could no longer tell which thoughts were actually mine. But through this practice, I found myself being more at peace again. More connected to my own emotions, and more in tune with myself. And even on the days when I only write a couple of sentences I notice how, little by little, my own voice starts to blossom again.

I want to be inspired by the outside world, however, it can easily become too much. Too much nonsense. Simply too much. I long for my own voice to guide and inspire me, for it alone carries the lyrics I was born to share.

How do you inspire yourself?

A life worth living for

A life worth living for?

Oh, you ask me?

Well, there needs to be beauty.

Whether it’s in the form of art, soft movement, a treasured book, a handsome face, a handwritten note, or the subtle signs of seasons changing.

But wait, now when I think about it, maybe it’s more about the awareness of beauty.

The other day while rushing home from work I all of a sudden noticed how beautifully green nature still is. Is it usually this green in mid-September, I wondered, while searching for deep yellows and reds, but there were none to be found. This year, nature is taking her time. Maybe there’s no need for me to rush either, I thought, and readjusted my steps.

So, if you ask me about a life worth living for, I would begin with notice the beauty. I find there’s something gentle and comforting in beauty. There’s nothing shallow about the kind of beauty that makes you cry at a beautiful flower, or be in awe of the endless sky. I hear things, I touch things, but most of all I see. I see beyond the flower, I see beyond the sky.

However, I suppose there are other things worth living for. And here is my list of them.

Creative living – Moments of silence – Trying new things
Nowadays I allow myself to feel bored from time to time. I thought I needed to entertain myself 24/7 to be creative. And then I realised that the opposite is more accurate. When I allow boredom to creep in for a couple of hours, or even a day, my mind starts to come up with fresh new ideas. I book a course, I take a walk, and I realise I want to learn how to create flower arrangements. All these empty hours are in fact not empty; they are filled with my own unique ideas and perspectives.

Peace – Calm
A peaceful planet starts from within. A peaceful and calm heart does not walk around creating chaos. And if there is chaos within – be honest – take responsibility – We can’t keep on blaming and judging others for our shortcomings. Look yourself in the mirror – is there calm in your eyes – or is there chaos? There’s nothing wrong with chaos, as long as you are sincere about it. Don’t hide from the disorder; let it show you where there are improvements to be made. You can’t experience the light without the darkness. Allow the yang to meet your yin. The moon to embrace the sun. The sky to touch the ground. The chaos to turn into peace.

Face-to-face connections
I want to feel your face, not simply watch it. We crave connection. Closeness is what makes this life worth living. I don’t want to look at you through a screen, I want to smell you. Be near you. Touch your hair. The energy we exchange with each other is comparable to the food we eat, the water we drink – it’s a necessity. There’s no iPhone in the world that can provide that for us.

Intentional living
Are you mindlessly scrolling through life? I know I can be, at times. It never puts me in a good mood. Never satisfies any of my deeper needs. So, I put my phone down, grab a pen and start writing. Much more satisfying. Instantly puts me in a fine mood.

Living with intention is about finding what works for you. Think more – How do I wish to feel? -rather than, –What do I want to do? – Living with intention is caring for yourself and your one life.

Do you have your own list of a life worth living for?

Finding contentment in everyday rituals

Routines can make everyday life feel automatic, making our days run on autopilot without us noticing. Tasks turn into chores, and to-do lists become boxes we check without thought. Somewhere along the way, we lose sight of the why.

But what if we chose to treat these daily tasks as gentle rituals?

Simple, grounding rituals that nurture our wellbeing—brewing a cup of coffee or tea early morning, strolling through the grocery aisles, journaling, enjoying an afternoon walk, or ending the day with a comforting shower. It’s the small, precious moments that shape our days. Days become weeks, weeks become months, months turn into years, and years shape a life.

When practiced with intention, these daily rituals, create pockets of calm and help keep us grounded in the present moment. When we slow down, create quiet space and reconnect with ourselves we help our bodies and minds to re-center. And the best part, you do not need to make any drastic shifts; small pockets hear and there throughout the day can make wonders for your wellbeing.

We weren’t designed to hustle endlessly, spend nearly every waking hour in front of screens, and live sedentary lives. What we really need is sunlight on our faces, wind in our hair, and cozy dinners with the people we love. We need those unhurried moments where we just breathe and do nothing. And remember, that’s not a luxury; it’s vital for our sanity.

When the mind lives anywhere but the present—caught in the past, rushing toward the unknown future, or longing to be elsewhere—it creates not just stress, but misery. It’s almost as if we’re afraid to simply be here, in this moment. Yet if we can’t find contentment now, how do we expect to find it in the future? After all, the future is shaped by the present.

With this being said, allow your present to unfold naturally. If you can’t accept the current situation for what it is – change it. Little by little, through your everyday rituals, change it. Not by force but with intention. The more fully you embrace what is, the clearer your path forward will become.

Don’t fight the boredom

Lately, I’ve noticed the urge to fill almost every waking moment with stimuli. Whether it’s listening to a podcast while walking, scrolling through Instagram before bed, reading a book, or putting on music while cooking — there’s this constant need to avoid the quiet.

Normally, I enjoy silence, the stillness of simply being in the moment. But sometimes the outside circus takes over and pulls me into its endless plays and entertainments, leaving me disconnected from myself.

Fortunately, I catch it more quickly these days. After about a week my body and mind start to feel anxious and uneasy, and I stop to ask: why? Then I realise — too many distractions, too much noise, and not enough space for boredom.

The thing is, boredom is actually good for us. We don’t need to be stimulated every waking hour. By allowing ourselves to feel bored, we open the door for creativity and fresh ideas to emerge. So now, I sit with my coffee or tea in bed before the day begins, simply being. I walk to work without anything in my ears, noticing the seasons shift around me. I allow myself quiet moments before sleep.

And yes, I still listen to music, scroll through my phone, and enjoy my favourite podcasts — but not all the time. I want to re-learn that I don’t have to be doing something constantly. I want to give my body the chance to relax.

I want to hear the autumn leaves falling. I want to smell the fresh coffee, feel my intuition calling. I want to be present as much as possible — allowing each moment to fully reveal itself.

When was the last time you allowed yourself to feel bored?

Dear September…

… and my heart melted.

”While some people like to dance underneath the stars in June, others like to play with the red leaves of September. And I’m blissfully, wholeheartedly, stuck in the middle.”

… And like the wisest of them all, you’re letting go of what no longer serves you. Your brisk wind makes everything rejuvenating. The days; alluring and brightful, the nights; dark and calm. I see a star waiting to be born, intentions waiting to be established, a nature waiting to be cherished, and a life waiting to be lived. 

September is for watching red leaves falling. Creating space. Caring for oneself, and others. Just like nature, we transform. Becoming whole, empowered and complete.

Silently witness the beauty of nature – notice how seductively and effortlessly she’s unfolding her treasures. Fearless.

September is for enjoying the darkness, as well as the bright light within. It’s for grasping opportunities. Looking within for happiness, success and courage. Sometimes the things we want the most are closer than we think.

PAUSE.

”Life starts all over again when it gets crisp in the fall.”

–  F. Scott Fitzgerald

This September is all about courage, love and determination. The midnight sky filled with stars. Filled with hope. It’s about being kind to oneself, to our fellow beings and Mother Nature. Inspiration, thinking out load. Expressing emotions, thoughts and dreams. It’s about feeding the body nutrients. Respecting the body. Listening to the body. Loving the body. Loving life.

It’s about not being afraid of failure, since – He who never fails, never actually lives –

Dare to flourish. Dare to be you.

It’s for eliminating all the negativity, all the drama – making space for what’s to come. Breathing in positivity, love and compassion. It’s for giving more. Listening more. It’s for being there for one another, believing in everything that we are. Limitless creatures. Limitless souls.

Dear September, help us see the beauty within red leaves falling, the beauty of letting go, the beauty of becoming. Reborn.

I welcome you, darling dear. There’s no hiding from you anymore.

How to be a happier human

Let’s talk about happiness. Although, I prefer to call it contentment. While happiness is often just a fleeting moment, contentment feels more like a stable, lasting state—a mindset not affected by external events.

So, how can we become more content or ”happier”? I like to see it as a choice. Every morning when we wake up, we have the power to decide how we want to feel. However, we sometimes give that power away, by letting others’ actions or external circumstances dictate our mood. We allow outside things to ruin our day, forgetting that we hold the control.

Ultimately, it’s about taking responsibility for your mood. Realising that you’re the one in control also means that you need to take action; maybe you need to change things in your life that you’re not satisfied with, and that requires effort. So, it’s easier to stay in the comfort zone, and let things remain as they always have been. Breaking out of it and choosing a different mindset takes courage, but that’s where true growth and contentment begin.

Another way to be happier is to be happy for other people. Celebrate other people’s wins just as they would be your own. Just because another person is succeeding in life doesn’t mean that there is less for you. Everyone has the opportunity to follow their dreams. Jealousy teaches you were your true desires lie. Who are you jealous of? What is it that they have that you wish to have? Be inspired by others; let their success be a sign that it’s possible even for you.

Focus on your own life and your own evolution. When we are too caught up in other people’s lives we drift away from ourselves. Use others as a form of inspiration, and as a driving force for you to keep striving for your own dreams. And of course – care for your friends and family. But, when you’re too involved in the lives of people you don’t even know, when you judge people that you haven’t even met, you’re leaking energy. Rather, be so busy building your own life that you don’t have time for other people’s drama. Your energy is sacred; don’t let just anyone have access to it.

Self-recognition. When you no longer seek external validation, but instead realise that self-recognition is the foundation of success, true contentment arises. Before waiting for others to notice you, notice yourself. Before asking for permission, say yes to yourself. Before asking am I good enough, know that you are. Before chasing, be still – attract.

With this being said, the way to a happy life is a life uniquely crafted by you. If you’re in a phase right now in life where you feel dissatisfied and discontent, start with asking yourself what can I do right now that would make me feel a little lighter? Maybe it’s something small such as taking a walk in nature, calling a trusted friend, cooking your favorite healthy meal, or maybe it’s updating your CV, booking that trip you’ve been longing for, moving cities. Whatever it is, the answer is found within you. Don’t run away from the discomfort; learn to sit with it, and notice how it little by little will dissolve by you choosing to look at it, rather than you choosing to turn away from it.

We all deserve to be happy. We all deserve to wake up to a life that feels exciting and meaningful. And only you know how that life looks like for you.

You are not behind

Allow the noise to dissolve, and let there be space for what truly brings you joy.

When life is not flowing in the direction you like, it might seem that everything around you is falling apart. It’s easy to slip into a spiral of negative thinking; comparing yourself to others and fixating only on what’s lacking in your life. This mindset of self-victimization doesn’t serve you; in fact, it will only make you feel worse and do nothing to improve your circumstances.

But why is it so easy to fall into this negative headspace? Maybe it’s our brain’s way of shielding us from disappointment, or maybe it’s just a sign – a wake-up call – urging us to become aware and recognise that it’s time to change course.

Whatever you’re facing right now, know that it’s simply a phase. But it’s a phase that deserves your attention, not your neglect. Instead, turn inwards and ask yourself – What is this feeling trying to teach me? Is there something I can do to make myself feel better? Is there something I need to unlearn?

There comes a point in life when you’ve simply had enough—enough of your own self-sabotage. What once may have been a habit has lingered for far too long, and now it’s ready to be let go.

You see, everything is a choice. You can choose to be miserable, or you can choose to be content. Yes, there will always be things missing from your life, there will always be someone that is more successful, more liked than you. But why choose to focus on that? Why not focus on building yourself up? Why not focus on becoming the best you that you can be. This doesn’t mean you need to be perfect. Perfection is dull, rather, embrace being yourself.

Maybe it requires you to take a break from the external world for a while. Allow the noise to dissolve, and let there be space for what truly brings you joy. At times we just act out of mere habit, not aware of the daily choices we make. Give yourself permission to be still. Take the time to truly listen to your own voice. What does it whisper? Notice the signs. Synchronicities. Remember, the universe is here to guide you, not to punish you.

So, don’t be hard on yourself for not being exactly where you expected to be by right now. Feeling “behind” is one of the most universal experiences—especially today, when we’re constantly bombarded by social media. But don’t forget that your life is unique; we all experience our own timelines. You should never have to force an outcome, instead, become more open and attentive to what’s already in your life.

Of course, it’s okay to feel dissatisfied with your life if that’s what you’re experiencing. Don’t ignore that feeling—it’s trying to tell you something. But don’t waste your energy on complaining; use it to evolve and move beyond your current limiting beliefs.

When you find yourself in this phase, take small steps to nurture yourself and regain clarity. It might feel tempting to distract yourself; you’ll do almost anything to avoid facing the pain. But know that is only a temporarily fix, not a lasting cure. Don’t be afraid to sit with yourself and your feelings. They are merely feelings; they can’t harm you. Instead, let them teach you who you are beneath all the noise. Let them teach you how to come home to yourself.

  • Spend time in nature, move your body, or write down or record your thoughts to better understand them.
  • Practise moments of stillness and mindfulness, even for just a few minutes a day, and let yourself reconnect with what truly brings you joy.
  • Surround yourself with people who uplifts and inspire you, and don’t hesitate to seek support when needed.

Remember, don’t treat this period as a setback, rather, use it as an opportunity to realign with your values, release old patterns not serving you, and step forward with intention. Practise patience and compassion with yourself, and focus on the small choices that will help you grow.

This is not a race, and you are not behind. You are exactly where and who you need to be to learn, evolve, and become the best version of yourself.

With these words I wish you a nice Friday and weekend ahead! Until next time; take care!

This August – Make space for what you love

To me, August has always been a time for new beginnings, more so than January. Growing up, it marked the beginning of the school year, and with it came the excitement of a fresh start and new possibilities.

So, even as an adult I carry the newness of August within me. Wanting to purchase a new calendar, notebook, and most of all I want to re-new my entire wardrobe, and sometimes even my identity.

Or maybe it’s not so much about renewing oneself, but more so about coming home to oneself. It’s funny, but the older I get the more I become her; my childlike, creative self who always appreciates the beauty around her. The one who loves to create from the heart, not caring what others might think of her. She just is. So, whenever August arrives I let her come forth a little more; I let her shine and take up space – cause she deserves it.

Still, with this being said, any day is a good day to allow your truest self to shine through. It does not have to be August, or January, for you to feel that now I can start over, begin anew. It can be a rainy Monday in October, a sunny July afternoon, Christmas eve…

You are exactly where and who you need to be right now.

So, if you are an August person like myself, why not use this month to fully immerse yourself in the hobbies and activities you love most? Is there something you’ve been longing to start but haven’t quite found the courage to begin? Why not take that first step today? It does not have to be a grand leap, even setting the intention to start focusing more on yourself is a first step.

Maybe this August is your moment to pause, and reconnect with the you, beneath the noise. Or maybe it’s simply your season to exist at a slow pace, and let inspiration find you. Or maybe you take bold action, perfect your morning routine and let bursts of creativity wash over you. Whatever it is; you do you.

Go within, and ask yourself – What do I want? And let the warm air of August guide you forward, one step at a time.

A gentle pause before fall

August. In-between weeks when summer slowly transforming into fall. She is certainly still lingering in the air, hot and humid. However, to the attentive ear, subtle whispers of fall can already be heard.

Still, I want to savor every last drop of summer. I want to fully appreciate her, without thinking about fall or what’s ahead.

I just want to be present, here and now, with summer, while she’s still by my side.

We humans have a habit to live in the future, rather than truly appreciate where we are right now. Always striving forward, checking off to-do-lists, wanting more. Never fully satisfied with what is in front of the eye, right now.

Where are you rushing?

And then, suddenly, fall arrives – and I will be reminded of how I neglected summer. By then it’s too late. Too late for that evening swim, the strawberry ice cream dripping down my skirt, the bright golden mornings.

There is till time to savor her; to soak in her beauty and the quiet magic of late summer evenings. This time, I won’t neglect her. I won’t let fall creep in too early. Fall will have her moments when she arrives. But for now, and until then – summer lingers in my heart.

The Power of Living from Wholeness

There comes a moment in life when you will stop entertaining the unnecessary ; the things, people, or experiences that once felt necessary for you to feel worthy.

Instead, you’ll learn to come home to yourself.

There’s no begging to be chosen. You choose yourself. And from that place of completeness, life begins to meet you differently.

You are not chasing. You are attracting. There’s no room for unnecessary drama. You are in alignment, simply being.

When you’re rooted in your own self-worth— not the “only if I achieve this or look like that” kind—but the deep knowing that you’re already enough—your entire energy changes.

You speak differently. Exist differently.
Work, love, create, and relate from a place of wholeness.

How does this play out?
In your relationships, you no longer over-give just to be kept. You no longer perform just to feel validated or desired. You honor your boundaries to keep your soul safe.

You let your value speak through your energy and presence. You trust your own rhythm and timeline. You let inspiration find you instead of forcing it to arrive on demand. You are open to receiving. You are in a constant communicative dance with the Universe.

There’s grace in how you see yourself. You allow yourself to receive.

You do not force things into your life. You magnetise them by being present with yourself.

Journal Prompt:

✨ What am I chasing right now?
✨ What would change if I trusted that what’s meant for me is also seeking me?
✨ Where can I shift from “pushing” to “allowing” in my life?